The real teacher is not the one who teaches you ‘How to top the class’ But the one who teaches you ‘How to top in life’
Dr. Nitin Sharma – Having transformed 5000+ individuals in the last 10 years with the Mantra of being Happier, Dr. Nitin Sharma is a specialist in employee emotional intelligence and organization dynamics studies. He holds a PhD. in Human Resource Development Practices and a qualified MBA with specialization in HR and Marketing. Since 2009 to 2016, he was the regular trainer at Employees Provident Fund Organization, Zonal Training Institute, West Zone (Ministry of Labour, Govt. of India), Ujjain, Madhya Pradesh
He had presented papers and participated in many national and international conferences, workshops and training programs. He is a charismatic and gifted speaker and involved in training activities in the institution and industries since 2009. He had conducted sessions for engineering, pharmaceutical and management students regarding Personality Development & Self Excellence Skills, Life lessons from Mahabharata, Ramayana and Ethics. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems. He is heading the Social Responsibility Cell Activity of Thakur Institute of Management Studies and Research and conducted various social activities for the welfare of society and county. He is involved as trainer in the staff development programs carried out at the Institution. He is also a theatre artist and performed many plays in Kalidas Academy of Madhya Pradesh.
“I think of us as journalists, the medium we work in is blogging.”
ACCEPT YOURSELF – Accept yourself, love yourself, you are God’s creation. God’s signature is on you and you are special, unique. Nobody else has ever been like you and nobody else will ever be like you; you are simply unique, uncomparable. Accept this, love this, celebrate this, and in that very others, the incomparable beauty of others. Love is possible only when there is a deep acceptance of oneself, the other, the world. Acceptance creates the milieu in which love grows, the soil in which love blooms. You have been living your life so totally, you are so fulfilled, that death can be accepted. Then there is no need to seek God, God will seek you. You just live in joy and see – miracles start happening.
TEARS – Never be afraid of tears. The so-called civilization has made you very afraid of tears. I am a man and I am crying! It looks so feminine and childish. It should not be so.” You stop those tears...and you kill something that was growing in you. Tears are far more beautiful than anything else that you have with you because tears come from the overflow of your being. Tears are not necessarily of sadness; sometimes they come out of great joy and sometimes they come out of great peace and sometimes they come out of ecstasy and love. In fact, they have nothing to do with sadness or happiness. Anything that stirs your heart too much, anything that takes possession of you, anything that is too much, that you cannot contain and it starts overflowing – that brings tears. Accept them with great joy, relish them, nourish them, welcome them, and through tears, you will know how to pray. Tear-filled eyes are capable of seeing the beauty of life.
LOVE – Love should be a reality in your life, not just a poem, not just a dream. It has to be actualized. It is never too late to experience love for the first time. Learn to love. very few people know hot to love. They all know love is needed, they all know that without love life is meaningless but they don't know how to love. And whatsoever they do in the name of love is not love, it is something else. It is mixed with so many things: jealousy, anger, hatred, possessiveness, domination, ego. All these poisons destroy the very nectar. To love means to get rid of all these poisons and then slowly you will see a new quality of love arising in you.
Love never should be forced, love never should be an attempt. It should not be in the mind at all- You are playing, dancing, singing, enjoying...part of this long joy. If it happens, it is beautiful. When love happens, it has beauty. When it is made to happen, it is ugly.
MOTHERHOOD – What i feel about this relation (mother and child) is that, Once the relationship between the mother and the child goes wrong, the child's whole life goes wrong. Treat the child as you would treat a grown-up person. Never treat a child like a child. Treat the child with deep respect. God has chosen you to be a host. God has entered into your being as a guest. The child is very fragile, helpless. It is very difficult to respect the child. It is very easy to humiliate the child. Humiliation comes very easy because the child is helpless and cannot do anything, cannot react. Once you respect the child, you don't try to impose your ideas on him. you don't try to impose anything on the child. you simple give him freedom- freedom to explore the world. you help him to become more and more powerful in exploring the world, you never give him directions. you give him energy, you give him protection, you give him security, all that he needs but you help him to go farther away from you to explore the world. (Its my perception)
“Research is to see what everybody else has seen, and to think what nobody else has thought.”
“We must seize every opportunity we can to speak the truth and proclaim peace.”